Tuesday, February 2, 2010

History and Mystery of Candlemas

It seems like every year I grow in the understanding of my faith, in large part because of the beautiful feast days that the Church celebrates. I think the Church created feast days and holidays for that very reason---to help us remember the history and embrace the mystery of our faith so that we can better live it and share it! The following excerpt gives some of the history of today's feast day: The Presentation of Jesus in the Temple, also called Candlemas. It gave me a lot of insight and inspiration:

At the end of the fourth century, a woman named Etheria made a pilgrimage to Jerusalem. Her journal, discovered in 1887, gives an unprecedented glimpse of liturgical life there. Among the celebrations she describes is the Epiphany (January 6), the observance of Christ’s birth, and the gala procession in honor of his Presentation in the Temple 40 days later—February 15. Under the Mosaic Law, a woman was ritually “unclean” for 40 days after childbirth, when she was to present herself to the priests and offer sacrifice—her “purification.” Contact with anyone who had brushed against mystery—birth or death—excluded a person from Jewish worship. However, This feast emphasizes Jesus’ first appearance in the Temple more than Mary’s purification. The observance spread throughout the Western Church in the fifth and sixth centuries. Because the Church in the West celebrated Jesus’ birth on December 25, the Presentation was moved to February 2, 40 days after Christmas.

At the beginning of the eighth century, Pope Sergius inaugurated a candlelight procession; at the end of the same century the blessing and distribution of candles which continues to this day became part of the celebration, giving the feast its popular name: Candlemas.

“Christ himself says, ‘I am the light of the world.’ And we are the light, we ourselves, if we receive it from him.... But how do we receive it, how do we make it shine? ...[T]he candle tells us: by burning, and being consumed in the burning. A spark of fire, a ray of love, an inevitable immolation are celebrated over that pure, straight candle, as, pouring forth its gift of light, it exhausts itself in silent sacrifice” (Pope Paul VI).


This imagery of our lives being like a candle, burning with Christ's love in an act of "silent sacrifice" as we share that love and are ultimately consumed by it really touched me. It seemed to give meaning to the loving sacrifices I make as a wife, as a mother, as a believer trying to live the Gospel daily. Today, as I ponder Mary presenting baby Jesus in the temple and having her heart pierced by Simeon's prophecy, I am reminded of the silent sacrifices we mothers make. We daily must give our own children to the Lord, praying that no harm comes to them, hoping for their salvation, and often having our hearts pierced when our children suffer or when we lose a child in the womb or before we think it is their time. I pray that Mary helps me to burn with the love of her Son as I strive to live my vocation, and that I continue to burn brightly even when my heart is pierced again and again.

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Monday, February 1, 2010

Tooth Fairy Tonight

Michael was beaming when I picked him up from school today, running at mach-speed down the sidewalk and waving a baggy in the air containing his first lost tooth. He has been waiting for this day for a long time. The past few months he had been lamenting the fact that he hadn't lost a tooth yet even though everyone else in his 1st grade class had---even his much younger cousin Elizabeth had lost a few! Oh, the horror of being a late bloomer for a boy (especially a highly competitive boy like Michael)!

Anyway, back to the beaming image of my one-tooth-less-son at school...

I immediately asked how it happened, and he exclaimed, "I lost it in my banana at lunch!" I laughed out loud and shook my head. How does a child lose a tooth in the softest fruit on the planet? I guess it is fitting for our funny and flamboyant son to lose his tooth in such a funny, flamboyant way! Congratulations, Michael, for your 1st grade coming of age event! I hope the tooth fairy can brave the bitter cold weather tonight...hopefully tooth fairies don't fly south in the winter! ;)


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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

New Favorite Song

I was having a heavy, weary day, and this song came on the radio and stopped me in my tracks. It was just what I needed. Maybe it will be healing for some of you too. Here are the words so you can read and be encouraged while this song sinks into your soul. (To listen to the song, just scroll to the bottom of the screen and click on the title)



YOUR HANDS by JJ Heller



I have unanswered prayers
I have trouble I wish wasn't there
And I have asked a thousand ways
That You would take my pain away
That You would take my pain away

I am trying to understand
How to walk this weary land
Make straight the paths that crookedly lie
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine

When my world is shaking
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave Your hands

When You walked upon the Earth
You healed the broken, lost, and hurt
I know You hate to see me cry
One day You will set all things right
Yea, one day You will set all things right

When my world is shaking
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave Your hands

Your hands
Your hands that shape the world
Are holding me, they hold me still
Your hands that shape the world
Are holding me, they hold me still

When my world is shaking
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave You when...

When my world is shaking
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave...
I never leave Your hands




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Monday, January 25, 2010

Boys in Big Sky Bliss

This weekend was full of lots of little joys for our whole family, and isn't it the little things that really uplift the spirit in the biggest ways?!

My little joy was being surprised by my sweet husband who arrived home a day early from his week-long work trip. He totally surprised me and even scored extra points by walking in the door with my favorite chips and salsa from Chili's in his hands! What a sweet and smart man I married! :) "Gifts" is my love language and any little, thoughtful gift sends my heart soaring...it made my whole weekend! And it made it easier to speak my husband's love language all weekend, too, so we were both happy! :) Funny how that works. I sure wish we would've read the "Five Love Languages" book BEFORE we got married...it would have spared us from a lot of bumps along the way. If you haven't read Gary Chapman's book, I highly recommend it---it saved (and continues to save) our marriage! Paul and the boys also had a weekend full of little joys. We were invited by some friends who live up in the mountains to play hockey on their very own ice pond! I'm not sure who had more fun--Paul or the boys! It was the perfect way to spend an afternoon. The sun was shining, the air was crisp, the snow was glistening, the ice was smooth, and the competition was good. What more could boys of any age ask for? Here are some photos that were a feeble attempt to capture a few of those little joys...Enjoy!

Doesn't he look handsome and happy? :)

Joseph loved showing off his hockey skills!

Michael was so blissful he had trouble staying on his feet!

Dominic quickly learned it was more blissful getting a free ride than it was learning how to skate!

Boys in Big Sky Bliss.


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Saturday, January 23, 2010

Two Quotes by Two Popes

I recently came across these 2 great quotes from two of our great Popes. The first one, by Pope John Paul II, seemed very fitting for me to ponder this week as I was a bit depressed remembering the tragic Roe vs. Wade decision 37 years ago on January 22nd. The quote reminded me that I need to not only pray for the end to abortion, but I also need to fast to make my prayers even more effective. Jesus tells us in Scripture that prayer AND fasting are essential (i.e. Mark 9:29, Acts 14:23), and that is a message our selfish world needs to hear. I am always shocked at how hard it is to fast or to sacrifice some little pleasure...like this Friday I gave up coffee and was tempted at least a dozen times throughout the day to make just one teeny weeny cup! But I guess that is what makes fasting so powerful. Every small act of "dying to self" causes Satan to loose his hold on us so that we can selflessly serve Christ, love others, and pray more fervently. I have hope that if more Christians did more prayer accompanied by fasting, abortion will end in our lifetime.


Prayer joined to sacrifice constitutes the most powerful force in human history."
Pope John Paul II


This second quote, by Pope Benedict XVI, I found to be not only deep and true, but also extremely funny. Who said a pope can't have a sense of humor? :) I thought it would be fun to memorize the Latin translation of this quote and use it as comic relief when I'm running low on faith :) I've also heard that evil spirits despise Latin (which is why Latin is used by priests during real exorcisms), so it might be handy to have this quote memorized to tick Satan off as well. Or perhaps it would be more fun to learn the Latin translation of "Go sit on a tack!" That would really send him over the edge! :)


"I have a mustard seed, and I'm not afraid to use it!"
(Haveo granum sinapis quod uti non timeo!)

Pope Benedict XVI


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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Not Your Average Boy, Not Your Average Night

Our oldest son, Joseph, made his First Confession (Sacrament of Reconciliation) this evening at the Cathedral. It was precious. He's been preparing for weeks---learning the 10 Commandments, learning how to examine his conscience to find areas of sin in his young little soul, learning to confess those sins to the Lord through a humble priest, and learning to thank Jesus for the tremendous gift of forgiveness that was purchased for us by His Precious Blood. That's a lot of learning for an 8 year old to comprehend. But, then again, Joseph is not your average 8 year old. He seems to fully grasp the gravity of sin and the gift of God's mercy...better than most adults, I'm sure! Sometimes I honestly wonder if he will be a priest someday...or is that just my over-zealous-wishful-thinking? :)

As a gift to celebrate this special day, I bought Joseph a camouflage Bible cover and a little prayer journal that also fits inside. He was ecstatic! He immediately took his journal to a room in the basement, locked the door, and brainstormed a list of sins that he needed to confess (bless his heart, he could only come up with 6) :) He decided it would be wise to take "his notes" in with him to confession so that he wouldn't forget any of his sins, and came out of the confessional practically skipping with glee. Taking off the load of those 6 sins must've made him feel as light as a feather! :) If I only had my camera! It was a proud moment for this Catholic mother :) What a joy for me to see how genuinely excited he was to confess his sins rather than dreading the whole process (like many Catholics tend to do). Joseph sincerely told me that he would like to do this every week! Wow, how I wish more adults (myself included) had his enthusiasm to admit their faults and receive the graces to begin anew! Wouldn't the world be a much better place if we all went to confession more often!? :)

Anyway, later that night, after having cookies and cocoa at the church, and then coming home to get ready for bed, I told him that I wanted to show him what God does with our sins once we confess and ask for His forgiveness. So I asked him to tear out the "sheet of sins" from his journal and crumple it up. Then we put it in our fireplace and watched it turn into nothing but ashes. I said, "That's what God does with our sins. He forgives them and forgets them as if they never were. And His mercies are new every morning!" How refreshing to be reminded of that! Perhaps I got more out of tonight than my enthusiastic son? :)

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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Christmas: Second Edition

Last week we decided to celebrate Christmas a second time when we learned that Grandma Theresa, Grandpa Pat, and Uncle Jon were coming for a visit. At Christmas-time, my parents were literally snowed-in in South Dakota, and my brother Jon in Oregon was recovering from an extensive shoulder surgery, so we thought no one would be able to celebrate with us. Finding out they were coming was the best belated Christmas present for us all! We found more presents to put under the tree, stocked up on some steaks and beer and wine, and pulled out all the board games! I didn't think it was possible, but our second Christmas somehow topped our first. What a joy to have Grandma and Grandpa and a fun-loving Uncle around to play all day with the kids. It was very hard to say goodbye when it was time for them to go, but at least we have some photos to remind us of the fun :)

We eagerly waited for Uncle Jon's plane to land...

We heard lots of giggles with Grandpa Pat around...

We played lots and lots of games...

...and then we played some more games!

We opened more presents...

Mommy received a BIG present!!!

We celebrated a grace-filled Mass...

We had gun battles...

and we went for a ride on the carousel.

Even our cat seemed happy having 2 Christmases this year! :)

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