A Totus Tuus Family: April 2018

Saturday, April 14, 2018

Birthday Boy Michael!

Michael turned 15 on April 3rd---hard to believe, but easy to see when I look at him and listen to his much lower voice and see his feet that are bigger than his big brother's! :) He is not only a teenager, but now he is a young man. He is a freshman in high school this year and doing great in school. He had a couple of tough classes this year, but has persevered in getting all As and Bs, which is quite an accomplishment at his classical Catholic school. We are proud of him. However, we do have to remind him from time-to-time to smile and be more positive---it must be a teenage boy thing to be grumpy and "cool" all the time. I don't get it, but I love him anyway. He loves sunflower seeds, sweetened ice tea, potatoes with lots of sour cream, playing airsoft wars, checking sports scores on the computer as often as I'll let him, and all things baseball---playing baseball and also watching MLB baseball (Go Tigers, Go Miguel Cabrera!). For his birthday, all he wanted was MLB.TV so that he could watch every single baseball game of the season. He didn't even want a party. He just wanted to watch baseball for his birthday because it was the opening week of the season. Easiest birthday party I ever threw. Crazy boy, but I love him anyway. :)

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Saturday, April 7, 2018

So What's the Big Deal About the Feast of Divine Mercy?

So, what's the big deal about Divine Mercy Sunday? Well, for me personally it's a big deal because the message of Divine Mercy and praying the Chaplet of Divine Mercy has had a major role in my spiritual life and in my marriage (but that's a long story that I'll save for another day perhaps). And on a larger scale, this Feast Day and its message must have been a BIG deal to Jesus in order for him to appear numerous times to a humble nun from Poland and ask her repeatedly to share His words with the world. Jesus explains to St. Faustina in great detail the date it is to be celebrated, the meaning of this feast day, and the comforting promises He attached to it. Here are just some of the words Jesus Himself gave to Faustina when he appeared to her not too long ago (in the 1930s):

Souls perish in spite of My bitter Passion. I am giving them ... the Feast of My mercy. If they will not adore My mercy, they will perish for all eternity. Secretary of My mercy, write, tell souls about this great mercy of Mine, because the awful day, the day of My justice is near. (Diary of St. Faustina #965)

My daughter, tell the whole world about My inconceivable mercy. I desire that the Feast of Mercy be a refuge and shelter for all souls, and especially for poor sinners. On that day the very depths of My tender mercy are open. I pour out a whole ocean of graces upon those souls who approach the fount of My mercy. The soul that will go to Confession and receive Holy Communion shall obtain complete forgiveness of sins and punishment. On that day all the divine floodgates through which grace flow are opened. Let no soul fear to draw near to Me, even though its sins be as scarlet. My mercy is so great that no mind, be it of man or of angel, will be able to fathom it throughout all eternity. Everything that exists has come forth from the very depths of My most tender mercy. Every soul in its relation to Me will contemplate My love and mercy throughout eternity. The Feast of Mercy emerged from My very depths of tenderness. It is My desire that it be solemnly celebrated on the First Sunday after Easter. Mankind will not have peace until it turns to the Fount of My Mercy. (Diary #699)

And did you know that you can get a plenary indulgence on Divine Mercy Sunday?

“An indulgence is a remission before God of the temporal punishment due to sins whose guilt has already been forgiven, which the faithful Christian who is duly disposed gains under certain prescribed conditions through the action of the Church which, as the minister of redemption, dispenses and applies with authority the treasury of the satisfactions of Christ and the saints.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, #1471)

Several years ago, Pope John Paul II instituted a plenary indulgence for Divine Mercy Sunday. It’s important to note that the plenary indulgence is not the same thing as the special graces promised by God to Saint Faustina. But it is just another opportunity to detach ourselves from this world and to unite us ever closer to Him.

To receive the special graces promised to us by God on Mercy Sunday, you must receive Holy Communion on that day while in the state of grace (detached from sin) and with the trust in His Divine Mercy.

Plenary Indulgence On Divine Mercy Sunday

To receive the plenary indulgence, you must fulfill a number of conditions:

Sacramental confession Within abut 20 days before or after
Receive the Eucharist
A prayer for the intentions of the Pope
In any church or chapel take part in the prayers and devotions held in honor of Divine Mercy or in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament pray the Our Father and the Creed, adding a prayer to the merciful Lord Jesus (e.g. Merciful Jesus, I trust in you!”)

You must be in the state of grace, at least at the time the indulgenced work is completed. This means that you must not have committed a mortal sin without going to confession. For a plenary Indulgence, it is further required that all attachment to sin — including venial sin — be absent.

Indulgences can be applied either to yourself or to the souls of the deceased.

And did you know that Jesus promised very special graces to those who even look upon the image of His Divine Mercy with devotion!? Here are some of those promises straight from Our Savior's mouth that he spoke to St. Faustina:

Paint an image according to the pattern you see, with the signature: Jesus I trust in You. I desire that this image be venerated, first in your chapel, and then throughout the world. The two rays denote Blood and Water. The pale ray stands for the Water which makes souls righteous. The red ray stands for the Blood which is the life of souls. These two rays issued forth from the very depths of My tender mercy when My agonized heart was opened by a lance on the Cross. These rays shield souls from the wrath of My Father. Happy is the one who dwell in their shelter, for the just hand of God shall not lay hold of him. (Diary of St. Faustina #47 and #299)

I promise that the soul that will venerate this image will not perish. I also promise victory over its enemies already here on earth, especially at the hour of death. I myself will defend it as My own glory. (Diary of St. Faustina #48)

I am offering people a vessel with which they are to keep coming for graces to the fountain of mercy. That vessel is this image with the signature: “Jesus, I trust in You." (Diary of St. Faustina #327)

By means of this image I shall grant many graces to souls…(Diary of St. Faustina #742)

There are 2 main artists who painted the image:

this one (above) was done by Hyla and is the more recent painting,

and Eugene Kazimirowski did the original image (below).

This painting is the "Original" painting done by the artist Eugene Kazimirowski in 1934.

It is said that when Faustina first saw the painting, she cried because it did not look nearly as beautiful as her beloved Savior looked when He appeared to her.

But who could ever capture the glory of God on canvas?

Aren't those promises AWESOME!? ...Spared from hell, protected from God's just wrath, extra graces... Guys and gals, it just doesn't get any better than that! :)

So, I hope you'll take Jesus at His word and take full advantage of the graces He is offering you this Sunday on the Feast of Divine Mercy, and also any day of the year by praying the Chaplet, looking upon the image of His Divine Mercy, thanking Jesus for His merciful love, and also sharing His message of mercy with others!

For more info:
http://www.thedivinemercy.org/
http://www.praymorenovenas.com/blog/divine-mercy-indulgence

Friday, April 6, 2018

Loooong Lent, Sweeeeet Easter

It has been a looong time since I have blogged, but I guess you could say that's because our family had a looooong Lent that kinda turned our lives upside down.

In February, our 11-year old son Dominic was diagnosed with a bone infection (osteomyelitis) that resulted in a week long stay at the hospital, a month of heavy antibiotics, and a secondary infection (c-diff colitis). The time in the hospital was very traumatic for Dominic...the pain, the narcotics, the withdrawal from the narcotics, the daily blood draws, the anxiety of not knowing how long he would be in the hospital or what would happen next...it all took its toll and I would have to say that we are all still recovering from the experience. Please say a prayer for complete healing for our son because the journey isn't over yet, but at least we feel like we are on the right path towards health again.

Needless to say, it was a Lent we will never forget (even though we would like to). But I trust and believe that God had a reason for all of it and we could truly see His goodness and blessings in the midst of the anxiety and pain. I think Dominic will always treasure the kindness and gifts he received from people while in the hospital (especially the LEGO sets!), the memories of getting to watch the Olympics in a hospital bed, and the visit from Father Christopher who prayed over him and anointed him with oil. As Scripture says, "God turns all things into good for those who love the Lord," so I have hope that much good will come from this difficult experience.

As I journeyed through the desert of Lent this year, I longed more than ever for the hope and joy of Easter to come.

AND INDEED IT FINALLY CAME!!!

It came with the reminder of Christ's victory over sin and death, and that one day we will be with Him in heaven because of His great sacrifice on the cross. One day there will be no more tears or pain or bone infections or anxiety----only love and praise and joy!

It came with the arrival of Grandma and Grandpa who drove 12 hours to celebrate with us!

It came with my brother Jon's family visiting us from Portland for the first time. How sweet it was to watch the cousins celebrate the joys of Easter together and simply to be with family!

It came with great food, great beer, and great wine (which were great indeed because we gave them up for Lent!) :)

And it came with LOTS of new SNOW! Funny that it looked more like Christmas than Easter, but it sure was beautiful!

And now here are some beautiful pictures to highlight some of the sweetness of Easter: