Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Special Feast Days Call For Special Recipes

This weekend is the Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes, our heavenly mother who is the patron saint of all those suffering from illness of any kind.  I believe that through her powerful intercession, we can confidently place into her hands all of our intentions and all of our illnesses of body, mind, or soul, trusting that she will bring them to her Son, the Divine Physician, for miraculous healing.  The love that radiated from Our Lady’s face when she appeared to St. Bernadette caused the French maiden to cry tears of joy. May Our Lady wrap all of us in that same radiant love, so that we, too, may experience tears of joy and be open to all of the healing graces God wants to pour into our hearts today—and every day.



Awhile back, I was asked to write an article about the story of Our Lady of Lourdes and St. Bernadette.  So, on this special feast day, I will share the story with you, for I believe it can still can speak to our hearts in the 21st century if we take time to ponder its message.

Bernadette Soubirous was a 14-year-old girl of poor health, poor status, and poor education when her ordinary life was touched by the extraordinary.  Bernadette lived in Lourdes, France and had a difficult childhood.  Her family was so poor that they were forced to live in the town's damp and abandoned prison, which the townsfolk fittingly nicknamed "The Dungeon."  Her father, Francois, lost his job as the town miller and spent most of his life doing odd jobs that did not pay well.  This meant that Louise, Bernadette's mother, had to work extra hard to support her 4 children, and Bernadette, as the oldest child, did much of the work raising her younger siblings while her parents tried to make ends meet.  During these difficult times, it is said that Bernadette served joyfully and obediently, rather than focusing on her own woes.  

On February 11, 1858, while she was gathering firewood with her sister and a friend, "the beautiful lady," as Bernadette called Our Lady for many months, first appeared to her in the rocky grotto called Massabielle.  She was dressed in a shining white gown with a blue sash around her waist and two yellow roses resting upon her bare feet.  It is interesting to note that this grotto was once a pagan worship site, and later, it was the town’s landfill!   Why would God choose such a spot for His heavenly mother to appear? Perhaps the appearance of the sinless Blessed Virgin at that spot would remind people that “God can make all things new,” that His merciful love, and that of His mother's, can remove the idols in our life and transform the garbage in our souls into something beautiful and holy.

Surprisingly, it was not until the 16th apparition that “the beautiful lady” finally told Bernadette who she was, saying: “I am the Immaculate Conception.”  Bernadette was not well educated, nor well catechized; she had never heard the phrase before and knew not what it meant, which helped convince the local priest that she was telling the truth.  In fact, the dogma of the Immaculate Conception had only been declared 4 years prior, and it was not a title known by most Catholics at the time, but it certainly became well-known after these heavenly visitations in Lourdes.

On the 9th apparition, Our Lady requested that Bernadette eat some of the grass growing in the grotto and to wash in the spring.  Bernadette obeyed without question.  However, there was no spring nearby, so she began to dig where the Blessed Mother indicated the spring should be.  A puddle of muddy water appeared, and Bernadette rubbed the mud all over her face, causing the hundreds of spectators to laugh and conclude that she was crazy.  Their opinion quickly changed, however, when the muddy puddle turned into a flowing spring, which continues to flow today and has caused many miraculous cures.

After Bernadette's 18th—and final—apparition, Bernadette chose the hidden life of the convent.  During one apparition Our Lady had told Bernadette:  “I do not promise to make you happy in this world, but in the next.”  These words came true for Bernadette.  Her young life, both before and after the apparitions, was filled with hardship.  Many of the nuns in her convent treated her harshly for a variety of reasons:  some did not believe that Bernadette saw the Blessed Virgin, some were simply jealous of her for receiving such a special grace, and some felt they needed to protect her from vainglory.  Bernadette carried the heavy cross of their cruelty with sublime patience and humility.  She was also given the cross of a cancerous tumor on her knee.  She suffered so serenely that her fellow nuns did not think she was very ill.  One day, a nun who came to visit her asked her unkindly, "What are you doing in bed, you lazy little thing?” Bernadette's reply was, "I am doing my job.  I must be a victim."  She accepted suffering as God’s will for her—her “job”—and she trusted that He would use it for the good of her soul or the souls of others.  As she lay dying in her bed, Bernadette pressed a crucifix to her chest and cried, "All this is good for Heaven!"   Love is what gave her the strength to do her “job” so joyfully, as she beautifully explained:  “I will spend every moment loving.  For one who loves does not notice her trials, or perhaps more accurately, she learns to love them.”  Bernadette’s last words were, "Blessed Mary, Mother of God, pray for me, a poor sinner, a poor sinner!"  How happy she must have been to see “the beautiful lady" again, this time welcoming her to heaven, fulfilling the promise that she would finally find true happiness.  She died at age 35, and when her body was exhumed many years later, it was found to be perfectly incorrupt.


St. Bernadette’s story still has so much to teach us Catholic women today.  Even though she had the honor of Our Lady appearing to her, her “job” was to suffer for the salvation of souls.  Her story reminds us to ask ourselves, what is our “job,” what is God calling us to do for His Kingdom?  Perhaps your “job” is to offer up the mundane duty of changing dirty diapers…  Perhaps it is to serenely suffer a physical illness to save souls like St. Bernadette…  Perhaps it is to show forgiveness and unconditional love to your spouse to show the world what true Christ-like love looks like.  Perhaps it is to plant seeds of God’s love at your workplace and get ridiculed for it.  Yes, perhaps the “jobs” that God gives us might cause us some suffering, but by uniting our pain with Jesus’ Passion, we will grow closer to Him and perhaps save a soul or two like our little saint from Lourdes.  So, whatever your “job” is, ask St. Bernadette to intercede for you to help you live it out with courage and love like she did, all for the greater glory of God!  


Here is a fun recipe to make for the feast of Our Lady of Lourdes to remind you of the beautiful roses that rested upon Our Lady's feet when she appeared to St. Bernadette.  I try to make these on most of the Marian Feast days, as well as on St. Elizabeth's Feast Day and St. Therese.  Our family loves them, and I hope yours does too!




Sweet Roll Dough
1 pkg. dry yeast
½ c. warm water
1/2 c. lukewarm milk (scalded then cooled)
1/3 c. butter, margarine or shortening
1/3 c. granulated sugar
1/2 tsp. salt
1 egg
3 ½ to 4 c. flour

Dissolve yeast in warm water in large bowl. Stir in milk sugar, butter, salt, egg, and 2 cups flour. Beat until smooth. Mix in enough remaining flour to make dough easy to handle. Turn onto lightly floured surface and knead until smooth and elastic. Place in greased bowl, turn greased side up. Cover and let rise in warm place until double, about 1 ½ hours.

Cinnamon Filling
2 T. butter, melted
1/2 c. sugar
2 T. cinnamon
 

Mix until all sugar and cinnamon is moistened. 


Make 4 small balls (golf ball size) of dough and roll them out into 3 1/2 inch diameter circles. Overlap dough circles as shown. Sprinkle some of the cinnamon sugar mixture across middle, leaving curved edges clear. 

Roll circles up into rolls as shown. You should end up with rolled dough with both ends fluted. Cut roll in half. 


Place dough in greased muffin tins. Cut/flat end should be down and the pretty, fluted/curved end up. 


Let rise until double (30-40 minutes). Bake in 350 degree oven 12-15 minutes. 

I found this recipe at the Catholic Cuisine website:  http://catholiccuisine.blogspot.com/2015/07/st-elizabeth-rose-bread.html




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Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Saints and Resolutions for 2017

Our family is continuing the tradition of choosing a patron saint to be our special intercessor for the new year.   A friend of mine who has a special devotion to St. Faustina first told me about this beautiful tradition a few years ago when she shared the following excerpt from Faustina's diary:

"Jesus likes to intervene in the smallest details of our life, and He often fulfills secret wishes of mine that I sometimes hide from Him, although I know that from Him nothing can be hidden.  There is a custom among [the sisters in our convent] of drawing by lot, on New Year's Day, for special patrons for ourselves for the whole year.  In the morning during meditation, there arose within me a secret desire that the Eucharistic Jesus be my special patron for this year also, as in the past.  But hiding this desire from my Beloved, I spoke to Him about everything else but that.  When the sisters gathered for breakfast, we blessed ourselves and began drawing our patrons.  When I approached the holy cards on which the names of the patrons were written, without hesitation I took one, but I didn't read the name immediately as I wanted to mortify myself for a few minutes.  Suddenly, I heard a voice in my soul:  I am your patron.  Read.  I looked at once at the inscription and read, "Patron for the Year 1935--the most Blessed Eucharist."  My heart lept with joy, and I slipped quietly away from the sisters and went for a short visit before the Blessed Sacrament, where I poured out my heart.  (entry 360)


So, here are the saints God chose for us this year:

Paul:  St. Aloysius Gonzaga
Maria:  St. Elizabeth of Portugal
Joseph:  St. Bernadino Realino
Michael:  St. Barbara
Dominic:  St. Charles Lwagna
Nathanael:  St. Anthony
Isaiah:  St. Juan Diego

All you holy saints...pray for us!  Pray that our family grows closer to Jesus this year and helps others to do so too!

I have also continued the tradition that I learned from Ann Voskamp to pray for a "word" to be my New Year's resolution---a word that the Lord wants me to adopt as my motto for the year to help draw me closer to His heart.  So on New Year's Day we went to Mass and I asked the Lord what word He was placing on my heart, and the word that popped into my head was "Peace."  But I wasn't totally sure (because I'm scrupulous and second-guess everything), so I kept searching for another sign for confirmation.  As I listened to the Mass readings, I head the familiar words that my parents used to pray over me as they tucked me in bed at night,  "The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord let His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord look upon you with kindness and give you PEACE."  There it was again!  The Lord wants to give me the peace this year that I so desperately desire.  Peace like a child being tucked in by her loving parents, secure in being loved and taken care of.  Peace that I have somehow lost as I have let the world's worries distract my childlike trust that I once had.  I pray that the Holy Spirit will help me find that peace again this year and help me to focus on what is true:   that I can be at peace in ALL circumstances because I am still very much loved and being taken care of by a trustworthy God.

Let me know if you want me and my kids to draw a saint name for you!  :)  Just reply to this post or send me an email (pmhurlbert@gmail.com).

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Sunday, January 15, 2017

Medjugorje Christmas Messages from Our Lady

The Christmas season is over, but I thought these latest messages from Our Lady of Medjugorje during this resent Christmas season were worth sharing.  The visionaries say that when she appears to them on Christmas Day, she is always carrying the infant Jesus in her arms and is filled with joy.  I love picturing that.  May these messages from heaven fill you with joy and hope this New Year!



December 25, 2016 Message to Marija

"Dear children! With great joy, today I am carrying my Son Jesus to you, for Him to give you His peace. Open your hearts, little children, and be joyful that you can receive it. Heaven is with you and is fighting for peace in your hearts, in the families and in the world; and you, little children, help with your prayers for it to be so. I bless you with my Son Jesus and call you not to lose hope; and for your gaze and heart to always be directed towards Heaven and eternity. In this way, you will be open to God and to His plans. Thank you for having responded to my call."



January 2, 2017 Message to Mirjana

"Dear children, My Son was the source of love and light when he spoke on earth to the people of all peoples. My apostles, follow His light. This is not easy. You must be little. You must make yourselves smaller than others; with the help of faith to be filled with His love. Not a single person on earth can experience a miraculous experience without faith. I am with you. I am making myself known to you by these comings, by these words; I desire to witness to you my love and motherly care. My children, do not waste time posing questions to which you never receive an answer. At the end of your journey on earth, the Heavenly Father will give them to you. Always know that God knows everything; God sees, God loves. My most beloved Son illuminates lives, dispels darkness; and my motherly love which carries me to you is inexpressible, mysterious but real. I am expressing my feelings to you: love, understanding and motherly benevolence. Of you, my apostles, I am asking for your roses of prayer which need to be acts of love. To my motherly heart these are the dearest prayers. I offer these to my Son who was born for your sake. He looks at you and hears you. We are always close to you. This is the love which calls, unites, converts, encourages and fulfills. Therefore, my apostles, always love one another and above all, love my Son. This is the only way to salvation, to eternal life. This is my dearest prayer which fills my heart with the most beautiful scent of roses. Pray, always pray for your shepherds that they may have the strength to be the light of my Son. Thank you."
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Sunday, January 1, 2017

This Odd Couple...


...wishes you a very Happy and Holy Christmas!

The Christmas story and the picture above just makes me smile and marvel at what God can do...  

If God can come down to earth as a fragile baby to save mankind from sin, and if God can bring two polar-opposite people like Paul and I together (and keep us together!), then He must really be a God of miracles and mystery and unsurpassing Love.  

That He is.  

And so much more.  

Christmas is that season where we get a glimpse, a taste, an inexplainable conviction of that miracle, that mystery, that Love which is God.  

And we long to know more.  

I hope and pray for myself, my family, and my friends that we all keep that longing in our hearts long past the Christmas season and get to know our marvelous God more and more...and more still.

Although the Christmas season is still being celebrated (I love that it lasts 12 days!!!), here is a summary of our celebration thus far:


It began with a special helicopter drop-off from Santa.  Grandma Jean (Paul's Mom) landed on Christmas Eve and spent a week spoiling our family with lots of hugs, love, presents, and amazing cuisine!
Even our tall teenager got one of Grandma's great big bear hugs!



When we got home from the airport, we had a nice meal followed by letting the kids open one present each (which is our Christmas Eve tradition).
After Isaiah unwrapped his present, 
it wrapped him up! :)

Nathanael's rhinoceros viper can't wait to snuggle with Grandma Theresa next time she comes! :)

Dominic got a unique albino crocodile with a great smile.
Unique with a great smile, just like Dom!

Michael could not wait to start using these high-quality binos!


Joseph was in shock and awe and bliss when he opened his new iPod
that I told him he would never get in a million years--
proving that Christmas miracles still happen :)


Grandma Jean was given some great Catholic books and a new sweater,
but I think her true gift was just being with her grandkids for a week.


She especially loved listening to Natey read 
and helping him with the words that stumped him 
(which are getting fewer and farther between)


Grandma also had fun making gingerbread houses with the boys...


but the boys had the most fun watching her do the work while they snacked on the candy :)


Natey loved placing baby Jesus in the manger, all soft with hay--
a symbol of all the boys' good deeds done over the Advent season


Even as an adult I think that presents under a glowing tree are gorgeous!


The boys finding the small treasures in their stockings on Christmas morning!


This was the majestic view from our car as we drove into town for Christmas Mass.
Perhaps Santa uses elk instead of reindeer when he comes to Montana? :)


Our handsome boys at the gorgeous Cathedral


Our family after Christmas morning Mass---the Mass was the highlight of Christmas for me!


Grandma Jean surrounded by her grandsons!
She is accustomed to being surrounded by boys for she raised 4 sons and 2 foster sons too!


The Cathedral felt so sacred and full of love on Christmas morning!
I love being Catholic and knowing that every time I walk into church Jesus is truly present in the tabernacle.  How blessed we are to receive Him---not just on Christmas---but every time we receive the Eucharist at Mass!


The best Christmas present of all is Jesus' gift of Himself--the gift that keeps on giving.
He came as a simple baby, 
He comes as simple bread, 
and He will come again in glory someday...
simply amazing!!!


When we returned home from Christmas Mass, we were greeted by a deer who seemed to be waiting for a Christmas present too.  So Grandma Jean got give her a little Christmas treat--
which made them both merry, very! :)


Then we came indoors to let the kids open all their presents.
The wait was finally over and it was so fun to watch them help one another 
and see the joy on their faces.


Nathanael liked his new game, some books, and some LEGO sets.


Dominic liked his new LEGO book, a Snap-circuit electricity set, and some Nexo Knight LEGO sets.


Michael was happy with his new basketball and a new full-size outdoor hoop!


All of us got wonderful gifts, but hopefully we would have been just as joyful to receive nothing but the gift of spending time together and the miraculous, indescribable gift of Emmanuel--God with us!


Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!
2 Corinthians 9:15





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Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Advent Highlights...awaiting the Light


This has been a lovely Advent all in all.  Yes, there were moments of stress as I got sucked into the whirlwind of shopping for the so-called perfect gifts for the myriad of people on my shopping list, moments of losing focus on the reason for the season, and even some moments of battling the darkness.  But I think I'm finally learning that it's OK not to be perfect, because we have a perfectly loving, merciful, and patient God who can consume our imperfections with a single glance, with a single ray from His heart burning with love and waiting for us to ask for His mercy.  That truth always brings me hope and shines light when things get dark in this heart of mine.

There were a few traditions--some old and some new--that helped make this Advent special and helped our family keep our focus where it belongs...  Here's a list of a few:

1) Making a renewed commitment to doing morning prayer with my husband and praying the rosary in the car with the kids on the way to school was a great way to start our days.  Striving to stay close to Mary, in general, is a great way to grow closer to Jesus.  As a sweet and silly sign of our love for Our Lady, we decided to place a scarf around our Mary statue in the backyard and sweep the snow away to keep her "warm."  Hopefully our love for her truly warms her heart.


Nathanael was my big helper to make Mary warm!  :)
I'm sure his genuine effort warmed Mary's heart more than the scarf.

It was also special to have the Feast Day of Our Lady of Guadalupe in the midst of Advent.
These rose-shaped cinnamon rolls are always a hit.  They are a lot of work, but so worth it!

2) Each week we picked a new "Secret Santa" within our family to remind all of us to do extra kind deeds secretively like the real St. Nickolas did.  Then we would try to guess at the end of the week who each person had and draw new names for the following week.


3)  The kids put straw in baby Jesus' manger when they were caught doing something kind, but they had to remove a piece when they misbehaved or whined, etc.  This was a concrete reminder that our acts of love can bring comfort to Jesus just like soft hay in His manger, but when we sin it hurts our Savior.  I hope we will have lots of soft hay for baby Jesus on Christmas day!


4) Decorating the tree as a family is always one of my favorite Advent traditions (well, two trees actually...we put the artificial one up first because I love to decorate the tree as soon as Advent starts, and then we cut a real tree later in the Advent season so that it would stay fresh and not drop pine needles all over the floor).  This year we gave away the angel for the top of the tree and chose a beautiful star instead, to remind us of the Star of Bethlehem and Jesus being the Light of the world.



5) The boys' school put on a beautiful Christmas program to help prepare our hearts for the joy of Christmas.

Our little "star" Nathanael with one of his best friends named Emily

Nathanael letting his light shine

Bow-tied Dominic had a solo speaking part in the concert, as well as playing the cello in the orchestra.

Joseph and Michael looking handsome in their red ties prior to the concert.
They are both becoming young holy men, and I am so proud of them.

The junior high and high school choir
(Michael is in the center with glasses; Joseph is on the top row, far right)

Joseph playing 1st chair violin in the orchestra.
This boy truly has musical talent far beyond his mom and dad.

6) But I would have to say that our evening Advent traditions were the most meaningful to me.  Each night for supper we would light our Advent candles, say the prayer for that week, and then eat the meal by candlelight.  Later in the evening, right before bedtime, we would gather again by the light of our Christmas tree and read our Advent devotional stories (one book had a Scripture meditation for the day, and another book had a traditional Christmas read-aloud story).  Some of the stories were truly touching and I hope the messages will bear fruit in our hearts for years to come.

My mom made this beautiful wood-burned Advent candle holder,
and this year we were able to make a homemade wreath from boughs from the trees on our property


Of course the kids thought that blowing the candles out was the best part!


Thank you, Jesus, for being our light in this dark world!  I hope this Advent season has made more room in our hearts for You and prepared us for Your second coming or whenever you may decide to call us Home to be with You!  Come, Lord Jesus, come soon!





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Sunday, December 11, 2016

Highlights (and lowlights) from last week...

Life with 5 boys is always a bit crazy, but I'd say that last week was even a bit more so than usual...

The week started off with beautiful snowfall, which meant driving the kids to school extra cautiously and a bit earlier than usual on Monday morning.  Half way through town, my 3 year old started throwing up in the car (which I was totally unprepared for), and a few minutes later as we were waiting in the turn lane a car crashes into us due to the snow-packed/icy roads (totally unprepared for that too).  But God gave me extra graces to handle all of it with peace, and I was just abundantly thankful that no one was hurt and that the week could only get better, right?
Isaiah handled the flu like a champ.
With his puke bucket and his ipad at his side, he was content as can be.


Well, the next day another child started throwing up with the stomach flu...

But then the week did get better after that...

Our big Kindergartner pulled his first tooth (all by himself!) and the tooth fairy made a visit to our house (despite the frigid flying conditions outside) :)



Another highlight of the week was that the local deer have learned that even though there is less food available in the snowy winter weather, there are sympathetic (or just pathetic?) animal lovers who will feed them.  It's fun, but also a bit strange, to have deer run to greet us when we open the front door or follow us when we walk to and from the chicken coop!
Michael is our greatest animal enthusiast and loves to spend the day hanging out with the deer or hiking around our property with my camera to get pictures of all the wildlife.


The weekend got even better.  There was so much snowfall during the week that we were able to go skiing for the first time of the season on Friday night!  The two older boys invited some school friends, and I got to go skiing with my sweet son Dominic (who is still young enough to think that skiing with mom is cool) :)

And then over the weekend we got to go out into the wilderness with some awesome friends to go cut down a Christmas tree and have hot dogs over a bonfire while sipping on hot cocoa and eating cookies in the snowy mountains of Montana.  It just doesn't get any better than that.




Thank you, God, for all the highlights (and even the lowlights) that we experienced this week.  All is a gift.

I wonder what this week will bring? :)

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Saturday, December 3, 2016

Let's console Mary's heart!!!

Today is the 1st Saturday of December, and the Catholic Church has the beautiful tradition of dedicating the 1st Saturday of each month for the purpose of consoling Mary's sorrowful heart.  Why is Mary's Immaculate Heart sorrowful, some would ask, when she should be happy in heaven rejoicing with God and all the saints...  Well, the way I look at it, she is sorrowful because once you're a mother you are always a mother, and when a mother sees her children sad or sinning, it breaks her heart.  Mary is the mother of us all, and so many of her children are turning away from God and might be choosing hell through their sinful actions.  So no wonder she is sad.  That's what this latest Medjugorje message made me think of...a very sad mother who is trying to do everything she possibly can---even miraculously appearing every day with messages of motherly wisdom---to try to bring her children to heaven to be with her and Jesus forever.  So let's start listening to her, let's start praying, let's start seeking God's will rather than our own, let's start trying to help other souls turn back to God...let's start consoling our sweet mother's heart!!!


December 2, 2016 Message to Mirjana

 "Dear children, my motherly heart is crying as I am looking at what my children are doing. Sins are multiplying, the purity of soul is all the less important; my Son is being forgotten - honored all the less; and my children are being persecuted. That is why, you my children, apostles of my love, with soul and heart invoke the name of my Son. He will have the words of light for you. He manifests Himself to you, He breaks the bread with you and gives you the words of love so that you may transform them into merciful acts and, thus, be witnesses of truth. That is why, my children, do not be afraid. Permit my Son to be in you. He will make use of you to care for the wounded and to convert lost souls. Therefore, my children, return to the prayer of the Rosary. Pray it with feelings of goodness, sacrifice and mercy. Pray, not only with words, but with merciful acts. Pray with love for all people. My Son, by His sacrifice, exalted love. Therefore, live with Him so that you may have strength and hope; that you may have the love which is life and which leads to eternal life. Through God's love, I am also with you, and will lead you with motherly love. Thank you."

(Mirjana said that Our Lady was very sad.)

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